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Dear Genie, May 2006 article from AGS Quarterly by Tommy Ingram

Dear Genie...
      A reader writes: “Dear Genie, how would you find the maiden name of three sisters, all of whom are found living in Missouri, either married or widowed, in 1920?”

      Researching a woman’s history is often difficult and time-consuming, but ultimately a rewarding project. In this instance, the women’s given and married names, and their sibling relationship, are known. At the end of this column, I direct you to three on-line articles from which I borrowed freely. In addition Jean Shroyer, Harold Hudnall and Cindy Foreman of AGS provided valuable assistance.

      The suggestions below should be researched for each of the three women. While one sister may not have mentioned her family name in a record, another may. It may be necessary to compare the information collected in these searches, looking for common names. No one record may contain the answer you need.

      Cindy, Jean and Harold agree that the 1920 census is a logical place to begin. Note the names of families living around the woman, who may be relatives. A person in the woman’s household with a different surname than hers may be related. “Although the 1920 census does not ask how many years a person has been married, as the 1900 census does, it does ask the person’s age and where they were born” (as well as the place of birth for their parents and even the year of immigration, if appropriate). “An educated guess should get one close to when they were married.” You will want to proceed backwards, attempting to track the woman in each earlier census.

      The woman’s marriage record is the best place to locate a maiden name. It may also list the names of witnesses, possibly relatives. The minister’s name can lead to his church, which may have records for her family. As Cindy noted, churches provided a sanctioned meeting place for men and women when other forms of socializing were less common.
The place of birth for older children will suggest where the marriage may have taken place. Look for the marriage record under the known husband’s name, but don’t assume that the woman was only married once - she may be listed under another married name in the record.

      Don’t overlook church records from later in the woman’s life. The woman’s children may have baptismal or christening records there which may list her maiden name. The godparents may be her relatives.
Make a timeline for the woman. Begin with her birth (estimated) and end with her death or perhaps the death of her children. Add every record, date and piece of information you collect about her life. The overall picture of her life that emerges may suggest more clues.

Other places to look for clues for a woman’s surname are:

The Husband’s Records – Remember, in order to marry, the couple first had to meet and court. Check for records in every area the husband is known to have lived. If unsuccessful, you may need to investigate in neighboring cities and counties. (Who said this would be easy?) It’s often said, a county line is just a line on a map. Nothing kept a couple from traveling to the closest community, even in the next county, to conduct business.

Naturalizations - Most women became U.S. citizens in their own right for the first time in 1921. Declarations of intent to become a citizen became more common for women and include biographical detail including the date and place of birth.

Land Records - Land records often show the passing of land from one generation to the next. If a deed mentions the woman’s husband buying land for a dollar (or similar amount), the sellers may be her parents. If the woman, alone or with a husband, is selling a parcel of land, the deed may mention that it is an inheritance from a parent. She and her husband may be a party to a deed where she and her siblings are listed “et al” as inheritors of land. Or, in subsequent generations, her children may have to prove that land passed to them without benefit of deed and consequently may list generations of family to prove their right to the land.

City Directories - It may be possible to locate other members of the woman’s family living nearby.
Local Newspapers - often contain family news. The smaller the community and its newspaper, the more likely the family made the news. The paper may mention trips to visit family, a wedding, births, a party, even a death and an obituary. Don’t overlook the obituary of someone you think may be related to her - that obit may contain more information and mention her by name. Articles about “old-timers” in the community are not uncommon.

Common Names - look for surnames being used as middle names for her children. Or she may have chosen a parent’s unusual given name for a child.

Children’s Death Records
- may list the mother’s maiden name. Birth and death records after 1910 for Missouri are available from the Bureau of Vital Records in Jefferson City, Missouri.

Cemetery Records - A tombstone may list a woman with her maiden name or may include her maiden name as a middle name or initial. Nearby plots may contain her family members. Some cemeteries maintain records on the buyer of a plot as well as other information about the family members buried there.

Funeral Home Records - Funeral homes often provided obituary information and many of those records remain, especially for the 20th century.

Probate Records - may list bequests to the woman’s siblings or their descendents. And be sure to check the probates of others you think may be related.

Books which speak to this subject include:

“A Genealogist’s Guide to Discovering Your Female Ancestors: Special Strategies for Uncovering Hard-to-Find Information About Your Female Lineages” by Sharon Debartolo Carmack ©1998 (out-of-print, available used on Amazon.com)

“The Hidden Half of the Family: A Sourcebook for Women’s Genealogy” by Christina K. Schaefer ©1999. Includes a state-by-state listing of the resources you might consult.

Source material for this article came from:

Kimberly Powell’s articles at genealogy.about.com/od/surnames/tp/maiden_names.htm

Finding Female Ancestors by Donna Przecha at www.genealogy.com/genealogy

Anisah Haynes’ article at www.geocities.com/Heartland/Hills/6354/

To submit a question to Dear Genie, please email it to tommyingram@grandecom.net or place it in the submission box at the monthly AGS meeting. Please be as specific as possible about the geographical area, time period and problem you are having. Although not able to do your genealogical research, Genie will try to provide some new and interesting resources and directions for your research.

This page updated Wednesday, 18th July, 2007 @ 08:05pm

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